When life gets hard, many of us instinctively withdraw. But one of the strongest predictors of resilience isn’t how independent you are — it’s how connected you remain.

The evidence

Research finds optimistic people tend to build stronger social relationships, and those relationships become an important source of emotional resilience during stressful times (Lai et al., 2020). A supportive conversation can calm the stress response, broaden thinking, and remind you that you don’t have to solve everything alone.

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